My last relationship ended badly. Why? Because she said I didn't go out enough. I work around 50 hours a week and just want to come home and relax with video games. She said that she can't be with someone who spends so much time on the couch or at the computer. I honestly didn't think it was a big deal because she always went out shopping with her friends. I guess because I said no to going out to eat, or to the movies, or shopping... She hated it. We were together for about 2 years and while I did care for her, I didn't love her which I think bothered her. I can't and wont just say "I love you" because of some hormones or butterflies. Anyways, how often do you get out of the house and do something? (other than work)